My boyfriend called off the wedding and sent me a text message.

Then why don't you look in the mirror? Or let others judge?

If it's the same as what the man said, it means that although people broke up with you, they didn't hold a grudge and still miss you. What a nice person!

If it is completely opposite to that man, it means that that man wants to stimulate your nerves. Such people have no manners and self-restraint. It was wise of you to dump him from the beginning. You should drink two bottles to celebrate.