How to treat the behavior of sending short messages in groups?

In addition to the one-year-old firecrackers, since last night, a group of news of New Year's greetings has come, this wave is to pay New Year's greetings in advance. If nothing happens, everyone will be bombed in a large area tomorrow morning and tonight, and of course it may be bombing others.

From the SMS era to the WeChat era, the platform of flowing water, the iron-clad public New Year message! This has almost become an era of popularization, a New Year custom of China people!

I can't refuse or complain about the mass short messages that come with blessings and goodwill. But from a long time ago, I stopped sending new year's messages in groups.

1. Mass texting is an invalid social interaction.

In the past, we used to send messages in groups, and we also painstakingly synthesized auspicious words in several versions of messages. After editing, I even read it through several times, trying to choose words and sentences to make me look very talented and literary.

What impressed me even more was that I was assigned by my uncle who couldn't use the mass mailing function to rewrite, edit and send short messages to everyone in the address book for him, asking for two things: "Congratulations to others for making a fortune" and "Change the suffix to my name".

Later, with the growth of age, more and more people know each other, and the number of group messages received each year is also rising. Needless to say, copying and pasting is similar to editing by yourself, and the effect is greatly reduced because of the mass nature.

One year on New Year's Eve, fireworks and firecrackers broke out one after another, and blessing messages broke out one after another. I picked up my mobile phone to send a group message, and suddenly I felt very funny.

Clearly know that the mass-sent New Year message, even if full of auspicious words, has no temperature at all; Obviously, I received a lot of content that I didn't mean, and I refused it or even resented it. Why must we seriously follow everyone and take the form?

The essence of mass New Year greetings is the king's new clothes, which is a hypocritical game between adults. Let's come and go together to create an illusion of sincerity and mutual mourning.

What is the purpose of mass texting? I just want to maintain or enhance the relationship by sending blessings. However, mass texting has long lost this function and even started to have negative effects.

Really, forget strangers. If a close friend throws me a cold mass message, I will be angry and sad for a long time. Therefore, mass texting has long deviated from the original intention and has no meaning.

This kind of socialization is ineffective socialization.