After pregnancy, I dreamed that my husband cheated on me three times and four times, and later found out that he deleted the chat record. What should I do?

I saw that during pregnancy, you found your husband chatting with the opposite sex, and some of his behaviors were hidden from you. You don't trust your husband. You have negative emotions in your dreams. In reality, you suspected that he was unfaithful and cheated you. You have a strong sense of insecurity, some anxiety and helplessness. I know exactly how you feel.

Let's take a look at the enlightenment of your dream. Freud said that dreams are the manifestation of the subconscious, and in the subconscious, there are some things that our consciousness can't accept. You dreamed that your husband cheated many times, and you were dissatisfied with your husband in your dreams. The emotion in your dream is the true emotional response of your inner depression. This repeated dream is also meaningful. In reality, you have a lot of dissatisfaction and doubts about your husband's many behaviors. I can see you have a strong sense of insecurity. You subconsciously think that he has done something that betrays your marriage. Dreams will show your dissatisfaction with him and tell you what you really think.

I went through pregnancy, too. During pregnancy, our body will become very sensitive, and our psychology will become very sensitive because of hormones and many changes. In this special period, you need your husband to care more and accompany you, but he doesn't pay attention to and take care of your feelings, but keeps in frequent contact with other members of the opposite sex and tries to hide you. You feel angry and wronged. I understand your sadness.

I suggest you have a good talk with your husband about this matter. Since all three people know each other, why did he chat with other members of the opposite sex at night in your special period and delete the message? What's his purpose? I suggest that you can tell your husband, express your feelings and needs, and tell him that his behavior makes you feel betrayed and sad, and you hope that he will not do such acts that hurt intimate relationships. Since your husband deleted the message, it means that he doesn't want to be seen by you and he doesn't want to hurt you. So I hope you can bravely express your feelings and needs, and don't suppress yourself, which is good for your physical and mental health and that of your fetus.

I see that there are some problems in your intimate relationship with your husband. Intimacy is a state of being, showing the deepest part of yourself to others without any disguise or precaution. I want to tell you that you must take care of yourself and make yourself happy during pregnancy, which is very important for you and the fetus. Your emotional response is felt by the fetus. You are a ... For the health of yourself and your baby, you should reduce stress. I suggest that you invite your husband, relatives or trusted friends to take a walk outdoors, take a walk in nature, pour out your inner unhappiness, listen to some soothing and soft music, or do some positive meditation with audio, which will help relieve negative emotions and do more things that interest you.